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I miss Myrtle Beach sometimes... - 1/24/2008

I've lived in MB a few years of my life, and one of the best things was the porno stores there. You could "preview" a movie and a dude would come in and blow you. It was great, and I did it more often than not while I was drunk.

I live in Greenville, SC, right now and am not finding the same kinda joints around here. I really don't give a shit if you're old or anything, I just like ...

2 response(s), 11 votes
Good Guys Left? - 1/18/2008

Yes is there any good guys left.Me still looking and cann't say i can fine ..So i thought i would ask and see if and were to look and get some help ?So feel free to tell me what i'm doing wrong >

5 response(s), 10 votes
shyguy417 53 M
1  question
love at first sight - 1/10/2008

do you believe in love at first sight i do my last boyfriend and i were together for 2 years and it was a most wonderful time together and even though we are not together now i still believe there is love at first sight what do you think?

4 response(s), 13 votes
Dont understand the fascination? - 1/7/2008

I find Tattoos, body pearcings a real turn off. For younger Guys I can understand but seeing it on a lot of over 40s is quite revolting. Its so Peter Pan syndrome

5 response(s), 14 votes
Are you truly available for in person meets? - 12/31/2007

I am available to meet those in the Lansing area in person to give them the pleasure they desire in every way they choose. I will meet to be used solo or by groups of up to ten. How many others are willing to meet in person?...

0 response(s), 16 votes
Why - 12/28/2007

When I discovered I liked men too, I had sex with my best friend. We tried everything, but everytime he penetrated me it hurt. Is there any thing that can eliminate that problem or help me looser? I need help please. I want 2 enjoy him.

3 response(s), 11 votes
john2494 73 M
1  question
In or out of the closet - 12/23/2007

In some countries or communities many gays are still keep themselves in the closet, while others out.What factors influence these pointsf one's own, family, community, and/or country.How about you or your experiences. ...

6 response(s), 7 votes
silvabacqbher 77 M
3  questions
Nigerian Scam?? - 12/12/2007

Hi guys,

Now I'm getting winks from what seems to be Hot looking young studs from Nigeria and 1 from Rumania.

I'm gussing that these "young Men" are scammers. What with the reputation of scamming Nigeria has. Now maybe Rumainia.

Yep, I'm Very cautious and "paranoid" about gift hunks.

1 response(s), 6 votes
silvabacqbher 77 M
3  questions
What Happened to Manners? - 11/23/2007

One of the main reasons we are all here on this site is to meet and make friends with like minded guys.If we get to gether and take the relationship to another level, that's great, but getting there is a problem.

A lot of guys say "email me" or similar to the effect that they want to meet people and are standard members. As far as I know, standard members can reply to mails recieved. ...

3 response(s), 12 votes
silvabacqbher 77 M
3  questions
Is it me or... - 11/15/2007

As a new member here, I have noticed that compared to the brother site, Outpersonals, there seem to be more people who have posted no photos of any kind here.

Also, I noticed that there is a very high % of guys who have not checked in for "over 3 months"

Has anyone else noticed? Or is it just me??

1 response(s), 8 votes
A Question of Nationality. - 10/17/2007

When your attracted to a Guy, does nationality or skin colour matter or not? If so, what do u like?

5 response(s), 9 votes
Holiday Hot Spots! - 10/8/2007

Have you been to a really nice Holiday destination recently, any remote Tropical Island, Romancing in Paris or trecking around Asia. Were these places Gay friendly or rather Homophobic towards you, maybe they were plain rude. Tell us about your adventures

2 response(s), 3 votes
What is it that attracts you to a man? - 10/7/2007

What attracts you to a man? A nice chiesseled jaw? Colour of hair or eyes? Muscles, boyish looks or charm, perhaps even an older man. Whats the first attribute you notice?

6 response(s), 9 votes
Age of Consent - 10/7/2007

There is always the question of how young it is to experiment with a person of your own Gender. What is the ideal age of consent? What is the age of consent in your part of the world? or teenagers will "Do it" anyway regardless of laws so its not really an issue. What do you think?

5 response(s), 8 votes
The first time you stepped into the scene! - 10/6/2007

When you stepped into a Gay venue e.g. Bar, Club, Cafe, shop etc. For the very first time, How did you feel? Were you, Nervous, excited, Scared, surprised?

2 response(s), 8 votes
chasingliberty20 37 M
2  questions
I WANT YOUR OPINION, REACITONS AND YOUR SPECIAL POINTS OF VIEW - 8/25/2007

HELLO TO EVERYONE OUT THERE. I REALLY WANT YOU SPECIAL POINTS OF VIEW ABOUT MY QUESTION. WHY SHOULD I FOR MORE THAN A YEARS AND I AM ALMOST IN 20 YEARS OLD, I NEVER HAVE EXPERIENCE ABOUT HAVING MY LIFE PARTNER EVER SINCE BEFORE. AM I FORBIDDEN TO THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. SOME SAYS THAT ITS VERY IMPOSSIBLE THAT I NEVER EXPEREINCE YET AND HAVE IT IN MY WHOLE LIFE. I SAID, YES ITS TRUE. I NEVER ...

1 response(s), 6 votes
chasingliberty20 37 M
2  questions
love has no gender - 8/25/2007

WE PEOPLE ARE FREE TO LOVE EVERYTHING BECAUSE LOVE ITSELF IS SOMEWHERE AND CAN BE FOUND TO ANYWHERE AS LONG AS YOU MEET THE PERSON YOU INSPIRED AND YOU FEEL YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH.

DON'T FEEL WORRIEDNESS ABOUT LOVE BECAUSE YOU HAVE THE POWER TO LOVE SOMEONE. LOVE HAS NO GENDER AS I BELIEVE. SO YOU CAN CHOOSE YOU WANT YOU TO BE LOVE FOR AND YOU CAN CHOOSE YOU WANT YOU TO BE YOUR LIFE ...

3 response(s), 14 votes
Global Warming? - 8/6/2007

The causes of Global warming are Heterosexuals Breeding and bringing more and more into this world. Its not Car Exhaust fumes we have to worry about!!

2 response(s), 8 votes
I think....... - 7/14/2007

I think Global Warming and Terrorism are nothing but Marketing tools created by western governments.

What do u think!

3 response(s), 6 votes
lonleydi11 37 M
2  questions
why - 7/12/2007

how did you all decided you were gay.

2 response(s), 7 votes
lonleydi11 37 M
2  questions
what - 7/12/2007

what really makes you gay, if you like to get ordont mind ot get suck but a guy is that really gay?

0 response(s), 1 vote
It Takes Two !! - 6/29/2007

It takes two Hetrosexuals to create One Homosexual. There isnt only one of us in the world, but a few million. Enough to Populate a City as big, if not bigger than New York.

Theres Food for Thought

3 response(s), 6 votes
Thanks GFF - 6/28/2007

Thanx Gayfriendfinder. Its nice to be one of Most Respected Respondents. Its good to be recognised for my Informative Articles !! Cheers

3 response(s), 5 votes
Hi - 5/31/2007

I know this isn't a question, but I just wanted to state that I just added my photo.

3 response(s), 2 votes
I'm confused - 5/31/2007

Why aren't any of you cute, sexy men posting photos? I'm not just talking about your penises, (although I'd like to browse through them also), but of your faces? Is the stigma that bad against us?

4 response(s), 2 votes
HIV+ - 4/23/2007

If your about to go to bed with a guy and then he tells you he is HIV+, what would you do?

If your friend told you he is HIV+ would you still be friends? What would your reaction be?

2 response(s), 6 votes
Liberation - 4/20/2007

When you have too much Liberation and freedom, there ends up being a decline in decency in society. First it was womens lib, the gay lib which was ok but its now gone too far and ruins our reputation, not to mention puts too much demands on the individual. Thats where an increase in Suicides takes place

8 response(s), 8 votes
Older? - 4/20/2007

I find older gay men real irritating in clubs, especially when they try to sleaze onto younger guys. The older guys always complain about being invisible in the Club scene. Really Dinosaurs are extinct!!!!!!

10 response(s), 15 votes
swpa41 55 M
1  question
How can we wake up GayFF - 4/17/2007

Hey guy I was just wondering is there something we can do to liven up this forum a little. I mean there, are times when a week goes by and nobody post anything.

Don’t know how many on this site are on Outpersonal also, the same forum there is used so much you need to check it twice a day sometimes.

Now I hope this site does not get that busy, but please.

Listen I ...

1 response(s), 7 votes
A Question of Education (Part 2) - 4/16/2007

Universally, Gay men are known to be much smarter and high in intellegance,

Why is it that 90% of Prison Populations are made up of Homosexual men, and the most drug users in the world are Homosexual men?

3 response(s), 6 votes