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Gay scene culture - 10/17/2006

I find that when I go out to the gay scene that majority of guys are after anything, particularly the older men. Personally Im very fussy and particular about my men, why cant guys set some standards out there, esp you older men.

18 response(s), 10 votes
Gay Marriage! - 10/5/2006

Im interested to know peoples general opinions on Gay Marriage. If you and your man were together for a period of time would you consider marriage, do u think marriage is outdated perhaps? Just curious !!

9 response(s), 11 votes
THIS IS FOR she_male24 - 9/21/2006

Hi! I'm davidg3 (my handle). I tried to respond thru your email. You said it's she_male28, right? Well, I keep on getting failure delivery in my email. I'm kinda new with this friendfinder thing, so I just thought of sending you a wink and using this option. I can see from the picture you posted that you're quite a "looker". And I have to be honest with you. Hope you don't ...

2 response(s), 6 votes
muguangshun 44 M
2  questions
Headache headache - 8/14/2006

I just arrived Africa, here condition very was really backward, nearly did not have the network, also did not have the gay bar, how could I find other homosexuality?

2 response(s), 5 votes
muguangshun 44 M
2  questions
Why am I sure to like the black? - 8/14/2006

I like the black very much, in particular to their strong body, thick penis

2 response(s), 5 votes
Royce4 56 M
1  question
Heat/Love Bites - 7/13/2006

So I go out the other night to meet a friend at a bar & he blows me off. Anyway, this hot Egyptian guy keeps checking me out, so I am getting rather turned on. We had a drink together….turns out he’s married. Long story short we go back to my apt and do some heavy petting ‒ no sex, . Had an amazing orgasm though ‒ felt like the power of 4. This morning I wake ...

3 response(s), 11 votes
ooty 55 M
1  question
why white guy say asian guy easy to pick up? - 5/9/2006

becouse asian guy always go to the white guy first and offer then self to the white guy

4 response(s), 17 votes
How much am i accepted? - 4/30/2006

I dont know. It seems so hard sometimes. Theres not much difference from gay and lesbian yet i feel like because im a lesbian, its harder for people to accept me.

2 response(s), 18 votes
bluehawk000 40 M
1  question
I WAS CONFUSE??? - 4/30/2006

As i remembered what have happened last month, someone wants to meet me, he told me he likes me so much, he loves me, though he never meet me in persons. we just chat for how many days. That time he decided to fly to philippines to meet me.AFTER on we meet then when he meets me, ohhh we talk know each other, and someone happens to us..to be frank we had sex that time. 2 weeks after i just ...

3 response(s), 16 votes
how many guys like wearing spandex ? - 4/25/2006

like to hear your comments guys

3 response(s), 7 votes
wildman391000 61 M
1  question
lookin g for love , wildman 39 - 4/9/2006

iv been on all theys set here and still cant fine no one to love me here , iam a nice man here , who is just looking for love , so how do you fine love here , some one till me here or fine me man iam here all most 40 still ante got no one in my life here ,

0 response(s), 6 votes
ahottimeinsepa 62 M
2  questions
why do some people laugh at others - 4/3/2006

sometimes when im with someone new i have this problem of either climaxing really fast or once in a while thing dont stand up to the task, if you know what i mean. Now i have been with some who exploded really fast, within a couple of minutes, that was fine for me, as they finished me off and we both we satisified. however, there have been times when it happened to me and the other party ...

5 response(s), 17 votes
adventurous3434 46 M
1  question
Bi Men - 3/19/2006

How did you first realise you were bi? Was it a certain event in your life that triggered the thought process? With me I was touched up by an older guy when I was 14 and it turned me on but didn't really understand the feelings I was having. I knew I wasn't gay but I knew I wanted to experiment with men. It wasn't until I met my wife that I actually spoke about it (the first person I ...

1 response(s), 22 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
Does it work for you? - 3/19/2006

Does this site work for you? I'm a Siler member, and I've complained for months that the "who's viewing me" link does not work for me. I've gotten a number of messages, but not one profile has shown up when I click that link. How can someone send me a message, and not view my profile? After months, the site finally sent me a test profile, and told me they viewed my profile, see my other ...

2 response(s), 11 votes
question about nothing - 3/16/2006

What's goin on with everybody else?

1 response(s), 8 votes
lovableboy 37 M
1  question
where is my true love????????? - 2/27/2006

im looking for a true friend and maybe my first lover ( or maybe my darling ) when i loved u . Now come here and oick me <br> up

2 response(s), 14 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
Please view my profile - 2/25/2006

I've had a number of messages sent to me in the couple months I've been on this site, but have had no people who have viewed my profile. I'm trying to figure out how someone can send me a message without viewing my profile.

2 response(s), 17 votes
ahottimeinsepa 62 M
2  questions
problem in bed - 2/22/2006

How do you handle a problem that sometimes happens? Once in a while, i find that my manhood does not stand up to the task at hand, or mouth depending on the situation. Most of the time it has worked out because i was with someone very caring and they handled it well and made me feel okay about it. But there are those out there that end up laughing because i could not get it up. I have ...

3 response(s), 15 votes
age? - 2/17/2006

is it wrong to have a 42 years b/f when i'm 29?

2 response(s), 12 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
More Advice - 2/13/2006

Doesn't anyone need any advise? I haven't seen anyone new lately.

2 response(s), 4 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
Site still not working right!!!!!!!!! - 2/7/2006

I finally got a profile that was viewing me, but it was with a wink. As soon as I deleted the wink, the profile no longer was there in people who were viewing me! I've complained so many times!!!!! The site sent me a profile as a test, but it was with a wink. It showed up, but was gone as soon as I deleted the wink.

1 response(s), 7 votes
Circumcision. - 2/6/2006

Friends. i WAS CIRCUMCISED AT 6 MONTHS, HAVE i MISSED OUT?DOES THE FORESKIN GO TO AND FRO OVER THE PENIS GLANDS DURING MASTURBATION OR DOES IT STAY DRAWN BACK UNTIL THE ERECTION GOES DOWN.

2 response(s), 6 votes
DO YOU PRETEND TO BE SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT (?) - 1/30/2006

COME - ON GUYS, LETS BE HONEST.? HOW MANY OF THE GUY'S THAT ARE PROFILED ON THIS SITE, LOVE TO SUCK cock.!(?) OK, A LOT OF YOU DO. NOW HOW MANY OF THE GUY'S PROFILED ON THIS SITE - *REALLY* ARE MASTERS AT THEIR CRAFT. REALLY HAVE THE *IRON LUNG* STAMINA AND TECHNIQUE THAT CAN MAKE A GUY HAVE TO BUCKLE HIS SEAT BELT - BECAUSE THIS RIDE IS GOING TO TAKE HIM TO ANOTHER STRATOSPHERE. HOW ...

3 response(s), 8 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
No views yet!!!!!! - 1/28/2006

I've been on this site for a month, and have yet to have anyone view my profile. My home page still states on it that my profile is pending review. I've e-mailed about 4 complaints to the sirte do far, and have not gotten any kind of a response. I've got profiles on AFF and alt, and they get 200% better results, and I've always gotten a response to any comments or complaints I have made ...

3 response(s), 9 votes
Friends Finder or \bsexo?\b Finder ? - 1/27/2006

I thought that this was a place to hopefully meet new "Friends" . Why does it seem so many are preoccupied with finding \bsexo?\b instead?

3 response(s), 11 votes
pinoy4u 38 M
2  questions
Sexual contact really matters/important? - 1/13/2006

In a certain relationship, would you consider sexual preferences i mean sexual activities really matter so that ur relationship will last or is it a basis for u to commit to a relationship just for that thing?How important is sex to u?

1 response(s), 13 votes
pinoy4u 38 M
2  questions
Right one for ME??? - 1/12/2006

I had only one serious relationship in my past life, im just wondering when i can find the right one for me who will commit a serious long term relationship with me?

0 response(s), 5 votes
New love will he understand?? - 1/6/2006

Right now i just meant a new friend.I was in a bad relationship four years ago.I have'nt told him yet that i just want friendship for now.Will he understand my feelings?I am i right or wrong for wanting this?

1 response(s), 11 votes
Anal with a hot CD vs. A Woman's p#$$y - 1/1/2006

Can you describe why having anal with a hot sexy CD is so much better than having vaginal sex with a regular woman? Give as much detail as possible.

0 response(s), 11 votes
blowngo94 58 M
1  question
last long enough? - 12/27/2005

i have a boy friend who can last all night! i do okay but want to last longer for him what can i do to help me to last longer when i am having sex with the one i love?

2 response(s), 9 votes