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Why do I? - 12/22/2005 I get on line and chat with other boys and I am not wanting anything else but to chat. I am finding it that my boyfriend is not happy with me for doing that. What should I do. I love my man and that will never change. 2 response(s), 5 votes |
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why - 12/9/2005 i have only been on this site for a short time and yes i`am and sandard for now, so i was wondering if i send out winks to get your attention why won`t they at least take a look at my profile so i know that someone is out their instead of just faces and body parts on this site..... 2 response(s), 5 votes |
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where's the beef????? - 12/6/2005 iowa here, there seems to be a problem with finding big muscle here in iowa. looking for fun and a friend. in the fairfield area. iowa needs to be a little more friendly. 2 response(s), 6 votes |
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"bugs" in the GFF website - 11/15/2005 This question can apply to everyone, but mostly to Standard Members. Has anyone had some major issues with this site recently? I have found what GFF calls a "bug" and they told me they were werking on it almost 2 weeks ago now. That "bug" is critical to standard members like myself because of the fact that it affects the "Who is viewing me" counter. So far, I have had winks and emails from ... 6 response(s), 13 votes |
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Which side are you on? - 9/24/2005 I fall into the category of totally gay and am very happy with my choices, though, at times it can be very frustrating, lonely, and dangerous. I live in a small very closeted community, though I don't live in the closet. I think those that do, do themselves and our community a disservice. One's sexuality is not governed my rules, as most of us are born with our sexual orientation. It ... 2 response(s), 19 votes |
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Why do i always seem to fall for people i know i cant be with? - 9/1/2005 I have got a friend who is absoloutly lovely he is kind, generous, loving just a wonderful person. we are very close and spend quite alot of time together i could really see myself being very very happy with him bar one thing, he's straight why does this always happen to me??? <br> <br> Dani x 7 response(s), 16 votes |
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you are very good looking guy i like you - 8/30/2005 hi would you send me a message for some reaso I can not email you though find you very attractive. I am trainee Doctor. I know Older than you but you do have a lovely face and I might b making fool of myself 3 response(s), 19 votes |
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how many homosexuals in your family? - 8/15/2005 is there more than 1 homosexuall in your family just wondering about the "it runs in the family/ genes thing?" <br> So far we have 2 openly gay males myself and a cousin, i have an openly bi-sexual cousin and we have one that has not come out yet but has admitted he thinks he might be.....to us. <br> i mean if thats not in the genes what is! <br> i was just ... 3 response(s), 15 votes |
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Things you like /hate about yourself? - 8/11/2005 What do you like or hate about yourself???? For me i am really quite happy but for one thing i would love to be heavier than i am for years i have moaned and been quite self concious about my weight, Ok so now i have come to terms with the fact that im slim and no matter what i try will change that its the way i was built but it would be nice to weigh a bit more than i do 4 response(s), 5 votes |
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Has dating become obsolete? - 7/3/2005 I've been single for a little over 2 years after an 8 year monogamous relationship. I found getting back into the single scene after 8 years a very difficult task. The majority of guys that I've met are all into just "hooking-up" and very few want to go out on a date first. Is it just my perception, or has the online sites helped to contribute to the lack of dating and romance in our ... 7 response(s), 21 votes |
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My Love letter to All of you! - 6/13/2005 When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means you're not a part of it. ... 1 response(s), 13 votes |
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what is cheating really? - 5/15/2005 I've been in a relationship with the same guy for over 3 years, but I have a tendency to give and receive anonymous oral sex with other men. Since I don't have any type of relations with these guys, it doesn't really click in my head that I'm cheating. I've been thinking alot about this and wonder... Am I a cheater even though it's just head? 3 response(s), 16 votes |
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What would make a guy hot or cute? - 5/7/2005 what would be the hottest of a man to be the best and why would that be... 3 response(s), 15 votes |
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Does first appearance matter or is it the second ? - 5/7/2005 Your ideal apperance for your first date would be explain as ... exciting or something that was free... which one would you chose first or second 1 response(s), 10 votes |
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can i find the right guy for me, even though i am only a gay/shemale? - 4/10/2005 I was born a man but a heart of a woman... i was grown up in the <br> <br> society that more in this criminations about the gays, i live in the country of philippines, i change may image to a woman but im not a transexual gay. i was born at sept. 29, 1986, maybe i am still young but my heart and mind is now matured now especially in the name of love. At this ... 0 response(s), 12 votes |
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Participation is key! - 4/9/2005 I hear alot of boo-hooing about not meeting up with anybody or getting responses, etc. on this site & I find that it's coming from guys that number one have not bothered to post a photo, & number two are not taking full advantage of what the site has to offer. One good way of getting attention is through Blogs, Blogs are good because you can post a new one every day or every week, etc. & ... 3 response(s), 9 votes |
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Crushes - 4/8/2005 How many of you guys have had high-school crushes on another guy, but were too afraid to tell them? For me, there's only been one guy, on which to this day, I still have a maddening crush on. 1 response(s), 6 votes |
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coming out - 3/29/2005 does anybody have any advice that i could use for coming out to my family. i know each family is different, and numerous factors could influence their reaction. some of my friends already know about my sexual preference, but i don't know what my family will think. i don't know if i'll ever feel comfortable telling them. 0 response(s), 4 votes |
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image over personality - 3/25/2005 how many guys out there consider a person's personality before their outward image...at first glance. if he didn't have runway-model looks, would you still consider asking him on a date, or would you simply dismiss him and move on, not even bothering to get to know him. just kinda curious is all. <br> <br> p.s. my shift key doesn't work. 4 response(s), 11 votes |
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hello its pretty me sam: (interesting question) - 3/23/2005 hello people over there. My name is Sam, my only question is about if the older man is ideal to have a younger man like me? I am seeking here a serious, and long term-relationship w/ an older guy, is there something wrong w/ that? Thats all...God Blesses Us -pretty_sam 3 response(s), 6 votes |
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Sex & health - 3/21/2005 Just a word of advise. The AIDS/HIV crisis isn't over so be careful. <br> I say this because I am surprised atthe muber of people that want to top them and then the y say nothing about condoms and some say oh please do not use one . <br> I will foever more use a condom unless I'm in a relationship for like twenty years and I totally trust my partner and we have had ... 0 response(s), 11 votes |
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POSTING PROFILE PICTURES OF SOMEONE ELSE UPDATE#3 - 3/18/2005 You guys that post fake or copyrighted photos on your profile, don't bother because the photo police are out there! GOOD JOB with yet another catch & fix GFF! Keep up the good work keeping it honest & keeping it real! 1 response(s), 10 votes |
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View Only Listings With Photos... - 3/15/2005 You guys get your photos uploaded! Some guys won't even view profiles without photos, it's a fact! Some of you don't have photos & you wonder why you don't get browsed or have "bites" as you put it. Not having a photo on your profile is part of the reason I guarantee it! 1 response(s), 8 votes |
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Our Boy Alex.....? - 3/13/2005 Where has our favorite question boy ___Alex___ gone? I ask to see "more" of him & some of you agree, then suddenly he is gone! The suspense is killing me, I am waiting for more! Alex where are you? COME BACK! And when you do will you reveal yourself... take off at least a little bit? 0 response(s), 2 votes |
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POSTING PROFILE PICTURES OF SOMEONE ELSE UPDATE#2 - 3/12/2005 The GFF Network must have caught up with "unchulin" & noticed he was using a copyrighted picture & removed it because now his profile has no picture. Good work GFF! Let's keep it honest & let's keep it real! 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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POSTING PROFILE PICTURES OF SOMEONE ELSE UPDATE - 3/10/2005 The person using using the picture of actor Josh Hartnett as his profile picture is "unchulin" (that's his handle) let's all put in a request to this ----- (fill in word of choice) to use a picture of himself or no picture at all! Isn't honesty the best policy? If you want to post celebrity pictures you can use your private photo albums but your profile picture should be one of you! Like I ... 1 response(s), 2 votes |
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POSTING PROFILE PICTURES OF SOMEONE ELSE - 3/4/2005 This is more a request than a question... if you're going to bother to post a picture or pictures on your profile make sure that the pictures are of you & not some celebrity or some picture you have downloaded from some porn site or an Abercrombie catalogue. Some jerk on this site has actually posted a picture of Josh Hartnett (the actor) as his profile picture! It's the black & white one ... 3 response(s), 9 votes |
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Self-Centered Guys Attractive? - 2/19/2005 Are any of you guys attracted to those guys who are really stuck on themselves? I have dated a number of guys that have model-looks & 2 of them were long-term, & I have found that for the most part they thought they were great guys based on the way they looked. The sad reality was that most of them really were just good looking jerks! Anybody had the same experience? 0 response(s), 10 votes |
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Requesting Nudies From Alex - 2/18/2005 I think our question boy Alex is a hottie! I would like to see "more" of him! Anyone agree? So, Alex... what do you think? 0 response(s), 14 votes |
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Am I wrong to want committment? - 2/15/2005 For years I have been trying to find the right man to share my life with and so far I have come close but still no wedding band. I am going to continue as long as I can but maybe someone has some advice on this subject 2 response(s), 3 votes |
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